With Mother’s Day just around the corner and with Father’s Day coming up in June, relationships within families call for our attention again. In every relationship that God designed and placed us in, His purpose was for each member to strengthen and build up the other. Paul describes those nurturing roles in the fifth and sixth chapters of Ephesians. He talks about husband / wife relationships, about parent / child relationships and about master / slave relationships (the principles apply well to employer / employee relationships). Husbands, give of yourself to your wife as Christ did to the Church helping her to become the most godly woman possible. Wives, come alongside your husband hold him up and encourage him in his God given role in the family. Parents, invest worth into the lives of the children given to you and teach them to know the Lord. Children, give honor and respect to the parents that God has given you. When we fill our role that God has given us in relationships, the dividends that come back are extremely rewarding.
It is nothing new to you that the family is under attack in the world today. Marriage has lost its sacredness. The thought of a lifetime covenant between a man and a woman is rare. A child showing respect and honor toward their parents is outdated. Parents who will personally invest in the mental and spiritual growth of their children are hard to find. Respect in the work place has been hi-jacked by the philosophy that “I deserve better than this”.
Ephesians uses phrases like, “Put off falsehood and speak truthfully. Do not let any unwholesome talk come out of your mouths, but only what is helpful for building others up according to their needs, that it may benefit those who listen. Be kind and compassionate to one another, forgiving each other, just as in Christ God forgave you.
Be imitators of God, and live a life of love, just as Christ loved us and gave himself up for us. Speak to one another with psalms, hymns and spiritual songs. Submit to one another out of reverence for Christ.”
We are living at a time when we are faced with a serious economic crisis. Given enough time the crisis will probably pass. Even if it does not pass it will not make a difference in eternity. There is a much greater crisis! It is a crisis of relationships that do have eternal implications. It is a sobering thought that the way we invest in others can make a difference in where they spend eternity. The relationships with families are especially in need of attention. Go back and spend some time reading Ephesians 4:17-6:18. What changes will you open yourself to that might have a life-changing impact on those around you? Christ will be honored and your life will be filled with a greater joy!
Keep on keeping on,
Pastor Phil
It is nothing new to you that the family is under attack in the world today. Marriage has lost its sacredness. The thought of a lifetime covenant between a man and a woman is rare. A child showing respect and honor toward their parents is outdated. Parents who will personally invest in the mental and spiritual growth of their children are hard to find. Respect in the work place has been hi-jacked by the philosophy that “I deserve better than this”.
Ephesians uses phrases like, “Put off falsehood and speak truthfully. Do not let any unwholesome talk come out of your mouths, but only what is helpful for building others up according to their needs, that it may benefit those who listen. Be kind and compassionate to one another, forgiving each other, just as in Christ God forgave you.
Be imitators of God, and live a life of love, just as Christ loved us and gave himself up for us. Speak to one another with psalms, hymns and spiritual songs. Submit to one another out of reverence for Christ.”
We are living at a time when we are faced with a serious economic crisis. Given enough time the crisis will probably pass. Even if it does not pass it will not make a difference in eternity. There is a much greater crisis! It is a crisis of relationships that do have eternal implications. It is a sobering thought that the way we invest in others can make a difference in where they spend eternity. The relationships with families are especially in need of attention. Go back and spend some time reading Ephesians 4:17-6:18. What changes will you open yourself to that might have a life-changing impact on those around you? Christ will be honored and your life will be filled with a greater joy!
Keep on keeping on,
Pastor Phil